Cancer – soft, sensitive & your ultimate nurturer in love! If you’ve fallen head over heels for a caring Cancer, you’re not alone. This sign brings all the warm, sweetheart vibes into a relationship & into the home. You’re in for some real TLC when you pair up with this highly receptive & domestic partner. This is especially true if your babe’s Venus is in Cancer along with their Sun, Moon or Rising.
Cancerian lovers are highly sensitive & are definitely among the psychics of the zodiac. They know what you want, need & desire & are often ready to give you whatever they can, even if it pushes their needs to the side. That being said, they also know when you’re being manipulative, lying or anything not harmonious, so if you think you can fool a Cancer – think again!
They definitely wanna fall for you, but they also might be timid at first. They can be hypersensitive making them extremely cautious in love & romance as to not get their hearts hurt or their minds twisted. Cancer rules the deep psyche, the subconscious mind and if they feel threatened at all, they quickly retract into their shells & become insecure & non-trusting. So do be patient & gentle as you approach these highly intune individuals because they really want nothing more than domestic bliss with you!
Though they’ll tend to give & give & give to you, what they need their partner to understand is they also need to receive emotional warmth & security to feel happy & content in their relationships. This seems like a no brainer, but when one partner (Cancer) assumes the role as the primary giver, this can automatically put the other in a position of the primary receiver. Cancers can let this dynamic become imbalanced due to their innate response to nurture others, so it’s their partner’s responsibility to help bring balance by showing them they deserve to be equally cared for too.
And Cancers, please don’t forget to communicate! Cancer can often get lost in their emotions & not let their partner in on their wants, needs or desires, leading the relationship into the dark & into blocked lines of communication & intimacy. Encourage your Cancerian partner to express their feelings & let them know they’re in a loving & safe space to share.
Seriously loyal, caring & sympathetic, Cancerians will bring a level of love, warmth & security into your life you’ve never experienced before!
20° Taurus Full Moon @ 6:34am on 11/12/19
As Scorpio’s opposite sign, Taurus is bringing in a whole new need of emotional stability this full moon. With the sun in Scorpio & the moon in Taurus, we are looking at intense emotional desires that require a ton of nurturing & grounding. This is no time for being flighty & escaping as much as you might feel you want to. There is nowhere left to run honey, it’s time for all of us to fess up & face not only ourselves, but our partners too.
With the Sun conjunct Mercury both in Scorpio, there is no better time to shine light on the shadow & speak your whole hearted truth. Whatever you’ve been keeping in that you should be sharing with your partner, now is the time to let it out. This is a time to merge together, to be more stable together & to feel more united & powerful together! Once we speak our truths, we feel so much more connected & emotionally open towards our partners.
Don’t let the stuffiness suffocate your relationship, air it out! With low elemental air quality in the zodiac these days, it can feel a little constricting under all those heavy emotions, watery tears & fiery passions. To find balance, we need to be sure we breathe our own expansion into our lives & relationships to truly benefit from this incredibly potent full moon that is begging us all to let it out, let it go & connect, connect, CONNECT!
Gemini – listener, entertainer, your BFF in love! Gemini makes the ultimate bestie in relationships. They’re phenomenal lovers but even better friends. Is that even possible? Yes, yes it is! Gemini is the Jack or Jill of all trades & is even known as the shape-shifters of the zodiac. They can be almost anything you need them to be – best friend, partner, wing (wo)man, your own personal stand up comedian – whatever you want! They are incredibly eager to be whatever their partner needs or desires.
With that all being said, make sure to encourage your Gemini lover to stay true to themselves & not always try to accommodate your needs. As highly intellectual types they can tend to get away from themselves & avoid their emotions, labeling them as “illogical.” Well yes, emotions are highly illogical, but it’s what makes us human! So, if you or your partner has strong Gemini influence in the Sun, Moon, Rising or Venus, be sure to create space for their emotions allowing them to feel validated. The last thing Gemini wants to feel is irrational & if you show that they are, they can feel very shut down. We don’t want that! A fully expressed Gemini makes the best partner so make sure they feel heard. The most important thing for a Gemini is to be seen & heard for their thoughts & ideas. Be patient, they have a TON!!
Is it just me who always falls for the funny guy? Or gal? Gemini has a special talent for teaching or telling stories & making you laugh! They’re total goofballs & it’s what you’ll love them for! They will always be helping their partner learn or listen in one way or another. Though they can be quite gabby, they do make very attentive listeners & desire nothing more than hearing their partner out in order to give them what they need & specifically what they’re asking for. In return, Gemini also expects this kind of attention & ability to express themselves within their relationship.
If you are the slower or steadier one in the relationship, you might be in for a wild ride, with your Gemini partner who dives into the newness of projects, ideas & adventures often! This constant change can be overwhelming or agitating to some partners, but do keep in mind it is how Gemini evolves. They are highly curious & love to learn & as your bestie, they want to do it all with you. If not, they’ll at least want to tell you ALL about the new person they met who was just so fascinating, the new place they want to travel to, the new book they just read that makes them change their whole view on the world. Adapting to a Gemini’s pace of life isn’t for everyone, but can be very exciting & extremely eye-opening as they are always learning something new & seeing from fresh perspectives. Viewing these qualities as positive will help you tap into your inner Gemini as well & let the fun begin!
So, if you’re ready for a crazy devout best friend forever, look no further than Gemini! They’re always looking to have a ridiculously good time with you, chatting the night away & getting lost in love <3
New Moon @ 4° Scorpio 8:38pm on 10/27/19
Can someone say triggered? While there is great opportunities this New Moon to have the deepest most meaningful communications & connections with your partner, there is also great propensity for misunderstandings, judgment, massive criticism & intense emotions. As transformational as this time can be with the Sun, Moon, Mercury & Venus all in Scorpio – I can’t bring enough awareness around having patience not only with your beloved, but with yourself too! This is a legit crazy New Moon & we all need to buckle up for it!
This is a perfect time to do something new & spontaneous with your lovey because we can all get a little too heavy & stuck when energies like this hit our normal day-to-day routines. Let this really powerful energy flow as fast as it needs to by doing something out of your ordinary routine & stepping into the unknown as much as possible! This space of fresh experience that you create will hold a more expansive container for new & meaningful conversations that you & your significant other wish to have. Get it all out on the table & watch out for emotional wounds that may feel triggered within these conversations around what you both truly need at this time.
Mars in Libra in the 5th house really wants to know how the relationship can be more playful & passionate all the while in a square with the heaviness of Pluto in Capricorn. Let the crazy come out, allow the serious convos some flow, & most of all – create time & space to process your emotions alone & together. If you cannot see the window to play & lighten things up, reflect on why that light isn’t there for you & be patient as you evolve into something new & better. As much as we wish it to be, Scorpio energy just never creates anything less than intense!
20° Aries Full Moon @ 2:07pm on 10/13/19
This Full Moon is all about finding the balance between communication & alone time and care for yourself & others. With the Sun opposite the Moon, we’re identifying or trying to understand the truths of our partner & being intuitive with the needs of others while trying to find a healthy balance as we learn how to be emotionally independent. Be sure you take time out for yourself as we can all get lost & wrapped up in our partner’s reality & emotions. This can create irritation when we haven’t allowed ourselves to spend enough time alone. The full moon in Aries will help illuminate where we’ve been too selfish within our partnerships or where we haven’t been selfish enough.
It is also a time to sit down & look your partner right in their beautiful eyes as we listen intently to their new ideas, dreams & values. Each of us may wish to communicate & integrate our values especially our values around purpose & meaningful work. So be sure to make lots of space for your beloved to talk out their visions for the future & plans for their next big chess moves! We’re all going to have lots of ideas to bring more of what we love into the mix.
Really allowing yourself time to breathe & dance with your partner this Full Moon is crucial to keeping things feeling light as the Pluto square Sun & Moon can make us all feel a little heavy. Be on the look out for coursing emotions & waves of emotional intensity in your relationship & just do your best to hold space as each of you rides the roller coaster of transformation. We all need lots of support during this time, so whether its a solo bubble bath with candles or a meaningful evening with your lover, be sure there’s lots of self-care happening to cultivate emotional balance – alone & together!
Taurus – committed, patient, your ride or die in love! There is no getting around how serious Taurus is when they commit to a partner. They will literally do anything for you as they work to build a foundation that could last the test of time! Taurus is the builder of all things & when in relationship, they are slow & steady to build something super meaningful & long-lasting with their beloved.
They aren’t the most spontaneous as they truly need to take their time in making big decisions & will take quite a bit of time to know if you’re the one for them. Though after humming & hawing about, they’re all in! Once the decision is final, so is the relationship – time to start building! And though they might seem super relaxed & mellow, don’t be fooled – Taurus is quietly intense & that inner stubborn bull can come out when you least expect it. Just be patient with them as they will be SUPER patient with you!
Taurus in love should be given an award for being the Ultimate Gift Giver. If your Sun, Moon, Rising or Venus is in Taurus, maybe you already know you’re the most thoughtful gifter amongst your friends. Taurus takes so much time to notice all the little things you love and goes above & beyond always when they shop or create for you! Highly artistic types, they love giving you something artsy & sentimental. Taurus is super into the meaning behind materials, so be sure to keep that in mind when you’re gift giving to them or have something around the house from your ex-partner > LOL! Taurus ain’t gonna like that!!
As your ride or die, Taurus will endure so much in a relationship & will often get stuck. Try & remember that when you feel the relationship stagnating or struggling & to keep energy moving for you both so that lines of communication stay open, connection stays vibrant, go out & try something new and work to breathe life into the relationship. Just because they can endure it, doesn’t mean they should have to – help them to lift up into new perspectives so the relationship can keep evolving!
Netflix & chill might be their ultimate mode, but make sure to shake Taurus up & keep things fresh. As your ultimate sweetheart & snuggle bug, Taurus truly wants to create an eternal kind of love with you!