Virgo – selfless, devoted, your wish is my command! Okay, maybe not ‘command’ but certainly taken super seriously. Virgo is a partner who wants to meet your every need & will work tirelessly in order to do so. They don’t mind a challenge & have a ton of determination to do things your way, the right way, the best way. They’re incredibly devoted to their partners & build a lot of connection around open, clear communication. This is especially true if your partner’s Venus is in Virgo along with their Sun, Moon or Rising.
Often an eye for analyzation, they analyze what needs to be corrected, improved and spruced up in their relationships and goes for it! This is one of Virgos amazing qualities as they can be very proactive and apply your requests into the relationship, but it can also be one of their more difficult qualities as well. This has it’s shadow side when things aren’t “quite enough” or aren’t perfect. Sometimes you may wonder if your partner is looking at your every move, habit, & characteristics under a microscope! You wouldn’t be wrong to feel so observed, but remember that Virgo is really just trying to understand you, your needs & what you need from them.
And don’t be shocked if you find your gifts are all practical & not as romantic as maybe you hoped. Your partner probably already knows what you like, but when they see something you could use day-to-day, they grab it! Try to see past romanticism with these types & see their intention – they really are thinking about you non-stop, listening to what you have to say & seeing how they could gift you something helpful.
They’re also highly detail-oriented, but maybe not always in the ways you’d prefer. Their perfectionism comes out in some areas & lacks in others. This can be frustrating to some, but just let them know what’s driving you crazy rather than letting it fester. Virgo functions highly off direct communication & needs you to vocalize your needs. As much as we wish our partner’s could read our minds, they simply can’t. Unless they’re a Pisces, Scorpio or Cancer… Kidding! Kind of…
Very earthy & grounded, but super mutable, Virgo is the most flexible & adaptable earth sign in the entire zodiac. They’re open to stable foundations as much as they are to travel & change. They create a very steady & dynamic partnership & really want nothing more than to build a long-lasting connection with you!
20° Cancer Full Moon @ 12:22pm MST on 1/10/20
This weeks full moon & eclipse is all about finding balance with ourselves & with each other. With the Sun, Mercury & Pluto all opposite this Cancerian moon, we may begin to find ourselves feeling swallowed up & unable to communicate our needs, desires & dreams. Our partners might wonder what’s wrong or be fighting their own battle as the culmination of karmas come to consciousness. We must be patient with ourselves & our lovey as we are moving independently & together through very emotionally charged times! The upside is we have so much room to integrate into a more solid & stronger unit if we stay open to this emotional process & keep lines of communication clear with our beloved.
With a few semi-squares between Mars, Mercury & the Sun, communication has the propensity to be heated or have a sense of palpable tension. This energy can also help us bring what’s difficult to the surface so we can more freely express ourselves & come to resolutions with each other. This may seem like a challenging moon for relationships & though it can be, it can also break through so many layers of uncommunicated subconscious emotions, needs, & wants that will only bring you & yours truly so much closer together!
Leo – fun, playful & totally center stage in love with you! Whether your entire social circle knows it, or it’s just between the two of you, Leo lovers know how to treat their partners with King/Queen adoration & affection. So many imagine Leos as extroverted, loud & in your face, but I have to be here to debunk that stereotype… If you’re with a Leo who’s the total opposite side of that coin, then you already know what I am talking about. This is especially true if your partner’s Venus is in Leo along with their Sun, Moon or Rising.
Leo tends to be thought of as the King or Queen, self-involved type that simultaneously is loud & robust with all their personal news & drama. This definitely could be the Leo type you’re with, but there is so much more to Leo energy than this. Many Leos are quite shy, prefer their alone time to groom, pamper & rest and have a very finite amount of energy for social engagements. You might think you partnered up with the life of the party only to find they’d rather have an intimate night in with you or a candlelit dinner somewhere quiet (and fancy).
Leo’s will want to spoil you & be spoiled too. You can have all their attention as long as you’re giving them the recognition they need as well. Always let them know they’re doing amazing, looking good, & remind them how talented they are. This will go a long way & they need their partner’s approval more than anyone else’s. Words of affirmation are your best friend when pairing up with a Leo King or Queen.
Leo lovers can be super generous & want to give you everything, but I would ask Leo to be aware of when they might be engaging in some slight manipulation. Stay authentic & if you tell your partner you love them, be sure it’s because you mean it & not just because you want to hear it back. Avoid giving a compliment just to receive one – Leo can get caught fishing for those words of affirmations & may come off as inauthentic to their partner, which couldn’t be further from the truth! They just need to be seen, so do your best to let them know that you are their #1 fan.
Infatuated, authentic & totally passionate lovers, Leo just wants you to know you’re their #1 & will love you like family while wanting to create a family with you!
20° Gemini Full Moon @ 10:11pm MST on 12/11/19
Happy Full Moon in Gemini! This is a time that has so much room for play & ease in relationship just as much as it has room for tension & growth. We’ve got polar opposite signs in exact opposition to each other in the sky, with the Sun in Sagittarius & the Moon in Gemini. This pull may make you feel that you & your partner are on totally different pages or it may bring you even closer together depending on your energetic relationship to these signs. Hint: if either of you has strong Gemini or Sagittarius in your chart (especially moon sign), you’re going to be feeling this moon more than most!
Emotionally, you may be feeling there’s something coming up for you but you feel blocked in accessing it or communicating it. This is normal at this time, so do be patient with yourself & your lovey when waves of emotions come up as you struggle to identify their source. Gemini can often make us think more logically, though full moons tend to pull up emotions. You may feel nothing during this time & only later when the moon has entered Cancer on Friday, the powerful energies of this full moon will reveal themselves to you. Stay present with each other & don’t force communication if you sense something is up with bae – it will reveal itself when it’s meant to & that just might be after this emotionally cool full moon!