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AQUARIUS

Aquarius – electric, eclectic, your most eccentric partner yet! Welcome to the age of Aquarius where you either progress or digress if you can’t keep up. Electric with vitality & energy, an Aquarius lover is sure to keep you on your toes, entertained & doing all sorts of quirky new activities. Never a dull moment! This is especially true if their Venus is in Aquarius along with their Sun, Moon or Rising.

With a truly different approach to almost everything, they may also approach relationships the same way. They’re the first to want things to be boundless without definitions, so they might even prefer the relationship to be called anything but a ‘relationship’. To them, it puts it in a box with limits & as individuals who always want things to progress, limits is the last thing they want in love. If you’re trying to navigate your way through this type of an Aquarian connection, be patient but also express if you need more solid terms for your “relationship”. These are what we call the Uranian Aquarius types – but there is another…

The Saturnian Aquarius type is quite the opposite. This is someone who clings to the old ways, traditions, old culture & may desire a very traditional relationship in every sense of the word. They don’t desire so much to progress, but to preserve the old ways & keep them alive. This Aquarian lover will want the values in their relationship to be formulated around whatever culture & traditions they most resonate with & cling to. If you are with this type of Aquarius, learn these values & culture to better understand where your partner is coming from. If you don’t think Aquarius isn’t the most eclectic zodiac sign yet, then wait – there’s another type!

The Uranian-Saturnian Aquarius is the 3rd type. This is someone who is mixed in with both the new world & the old world & may at times struggle to be in this world. Keep that in mind when you’re with this day dreamer-go with the flow-social butterfly-entrepreneurial type! Oh yes, Aquarius is very creative & inventive – you may have lots of new experiments & projects scattered all over your house. You may find this Uranian-Saturnian type to be a little scattered as well, but do your best to either be their grounding force or flitter around with them. They are a ton of fun!

All 3 types bring their own excitement & romance to a relationship in a unique way & really want nothing more than to live the weirdest, most classically eccentric-kinda life with you!

16° Sagittarius Full Moon @ 12:11pm on 6/5/20

This Sagittarius moon illuminates many aspects of ourselves & our relationship. Perspectives, intellect, overthinking & ideas are ping-ponging around about how we can live our highest potential, best life, what we truly value as we move forward with what we feel is our purpose in this life AND in our relationships. We will be challenged by the Sun-Venus conjunction opposite the moon as we work to find balance between our thoughts/thinking mind & intuition/heart intelligence in order to feel integrated. 

You may feel a bit pulled all over the place during this time, but tap into the full moon Sagittarius energy which brings us into alignment with ourselves & eachother on deeper levels than what we can see. Turning our energy inwards will help us to activate, navigate & draw energy upward in order to act effectively & efficiently as a team, rather than both of you spiraling out of control aimlessly. 

This is a great time to set intentions inward, arch & aim your arrow to your highest ideals & communicate them with your partner for collaboration. You both may have differing ideas, views & dreams but that is okay! Allow there to be differences & know you can still grow together during this time. It will be a deep healing energy that allows each of you to connect on subtle levels you may not even know existed. Operate as interdependents rather than codependents. Let yourselves receive this unique energy & put your arrows together towards a bigger & brighter future!

CAPRICORN

Capricorn – dependable, hardworking & seriously in love with you! Yes, they are serious with their love for you, they mean what they say & their actions are nothing short of exactly what you need. Not exactly what you may want sometimes, but Capricorn more readily sees ‘needs’ over ‘wants’. This is especially true if your partner’s Venus is in Capricorn along with their Sun, Moon or Rising.

Your Cap partner is loyal & takes complete responsibility to care for the household, your resources, & your relationship. They want things to be organized & in order & are always willing to put the work in to do so. In this case, they may struggle to share a home with an overly Pisces type or Aries who can often be a bit on the messy side. They are highly realistic & won’t be caught daydreaming things they can’t readily bring into manifest. Some of the more optimists might say they’re pessimists, but in truth, they are just realists. 

In this way, they can sometimes be a little too blunt, honest or upfront with their opinions about… everything! It can be a lot to take on Capricorn’s brutally honest criticism which might be exactly what it feels like, but to them they are really just trying to help by being genuine & honest. Keep that in mind when you start to take their words too personally. Caps’ have super high standards for many things in life & if they see you’re not living to your fullest potential, they’re going to say something. Let them feel free to speak, but also honor your sacred boundaries if how they’re speaking to you isn’t gentle enough. Again, this conversation will always be out of care for you & not out of judgment.

You may find it difficult for your Capricorn partner to be truly vulnerable with you. They often struggle to let their emotions flow, receive love, let their guard down & be expressive. Generally they will wall up, shut down or feel cold & want space & alone time to process. Be respectful of that, let them know you’re there for them when they need & don’t take it too personal if they don’t want to share every little feeling with you. It can be exceptionally hard for these highly controlled types to be seen as emotional wrecks crying on the floor. 

Capricorn just wants your love & respect & promises to give that care 10 fold back. All they really want is to be heard for the strong, capable people they are & are 100% committed to creating a secure & joyous life with you!

18° Scorpio Full Moon @ 5:46am MST on 5/7/20

Well, what can I say? It’s the crazy making Full Moon in the intense sign of Scorpio during quarantine moving through the 7th house of relationships… If you live with your partner, buckle up! If you don’t, maybe you’re in the clear – maybe you’re not. With this illumination on our spirit & psyche, it’s time we dive deep within ourselves & our relationships. It’s time to know what’s stable (Taurus), what need’s work, & what is simply ready to be left behind. 

There will be lots of integration through balancing aspects of our personality & doing our best to communicate all the ups & downs in our mood to our partner. Communication will be necessary at some point but do take time to be alone, reflect, meditate & center yourself before entering into any serious conversations. With Mars square Mercury, things can get heated but if you both come to the table centered & calm, you will have very productive outcomes from connecting! 

With Venus in Gemini, it’s a good time to gain some new perspectives on what you both love, desire & value & how you can integrate more of that into your lives moving forward. The Taurus energy lends a great mindset to know what long lasting foundations you want to evolve forward with together & how you could let certain things go to be lighter & more open to divine timing. These can be physical or emotional things. You could leave behind that old couch or you could leave behind perfectionism. It’s time to ‘empty the closet’ so you & your beloved can grow deeper into alignment for the brightest future!

SAGITTARIUS

Sagittarius – free, optimistic, your excitement-seeking adventurer in love! If you’ve been with or are with a Sagittarius, you’ll know right away they are the most fun, exciting & freedom-loving people you know. They have a positive approach to life & a go-getter attitude that is contagious to be around. When you’re coupled up with such a force, they’ll want you to be their ultimate side kick in adventures, truth, freedom & love. This is especially true if their Sun, Moon, Rising or Venus is in Sagittarius. 

Sagittarius is really just that – a force. They are mutable fire & have energy sparking all over the place. They’re truly exciting people to know & be partnered with. Hopefully you have a suitcase in one hand & a philosophy book in the other because these types want to talk truth & wisdom as much as they want to experience something new – new food, new culture, new music, new people, new vibes. They live & breath the freshness of a new experience & disdain stagnancy or feeling caged in. So whatever you do, don’t make your Sag feel they are in a pen! 

As much as Sagittarius seeks truth, wisdom & new ideas, they can get stuck in their own ideologies. You may find when talking with your beloved that they get opinionated, self-righteous or maybe slightly insensitive if they feel you’re not speaking to the truths they know or what they believe is ethically right. Let your Sag lover know that you’re trying to level with them & understand & respect their beliefs so that they don’t feel they need to be on the defense so much. Remember, we’re dealing with FIRE here! That being said, once they feel free & safe with you, they will only want you to help them continue to expand their horizons of the mind & heart. 

If you happen to be the ‘cozied up at home’ type (Cancer, Pisces, Taurus) & have landed yourself a wanderlust Sagittarius babe, be sure to at least make the effort to get out & do things with them even if it seems difficult. The key here is that your Sagittarius boo will tell you “it’s fine” when you often don’t want to do their next wild idea & they’ll happily go do it solo anyway. Then you might start to think “cool, they don’t need me to do these things with them” – wait… Yes, Sag loves to do things solo, but they also really desire adventurous love. If you let your Sag out too often to take on these ventures solo, wanderLUST might have a whole new meaning, if you catch my drift. They want a partner, so meet them where they’re at as much as you can (they’ll do the same for you). 

Whether you’re ready or not, your Sagittarius partner is ready to dine with you in Italy, play Lord of the Rings in New Zealand, explore ancient ruins in Rome, & over all be the most kick ass partner you’ve ever had the joy of loving!

19° Libra Full Moon @ 8:35pm MST on 4/7/20

This week’s Libra Full Moon is jam packed with energy for you & your partner to really start getting EVERYTHING out into the open. Not to mention you’re with them now more than ever as they are on your quaranteam & you will now be getting to know each other even better because of it. Libra full moon in the 12th house encourages us to share our wildest dreams that need no basis in logic, rationality, or money-making, but rather about what we see beautiful in our lives that inspire us to share with the world, each other & discover how we’ve been longing for its expression for a very long time. Activated dreams & deep dives with Pluto sextile Mercury make conversations between you & your beloved very vulnerable, open & raw. 

Take time out to understand all these dreams, inspirations & emotions & try not to let an out-of-left-field type convo with your significant other throw you through a loop. Know that this is an unprecedented time for all of us & we are all ready to dream up something bigger, better & totally authentic. You might realize through these conversations you’re not on the same page like you thought or that it’s time to get up to speed with each other & fall even deeper in love! With Mars trine Venus, our wants, values & desires have an extra get-up & go which is exactly what we need when the moon asks us to dream big & beautiful dreams! Integrate these as a team & understand no matter how interconnected, both you & your partner have an authentic individuality & divine purpose to express.

SCORPIO

Scorpio – fun, dorky & light…. APRIL FOOLS! I’m sure I had almost no one going on that intro. Okay, for real though > Scorpio – magical, deep & everyone’s favorite mystery to solve! Scorpio is full of complex & magnetic energy that draws people to them with so much passion it’s hard to even know what hit you. Their intense gaze says everything & nothing all at the same time, all you know is you want more of your super sexy Scorpio partner!

Yes, Scorpio similar to Aries, is filled with passion & sexual energy but also so much more. They love deeply & intensely & often express their love through actions, gestures & quality time. They might not be words of affirmation but will show you more through physical touch & affection. As a love language, they absolutely need both physical touch & quality time to feel connected to their partners & without it will feel distant, disconnected & unrecognized. It is super important to meet Scorpio energy with the appropriate amount of vigor & to put it bluntly – libido. 

Scorpio wants to become one with you physically, mentally & spiritually which is one area they can be quite complex to understand especially for certain signs. They want a full on merger of love, mind, power, energy, resources, body & soul. I know Libra rules marriage but as far as union goes, Scorpio takes that word to a whole other level! In this depth of connection, Scorpio can find itself on the jealous end of the spectrum. In fact, they are known to be the most jelly sign in the entire zodiac. So do keep your eyes for each other & try not to let the ol ‘whoa, he/she’s hot!’ slip. Sounds extreme but a Scorpio isn’t naive, they know they’re not the only person in the world. But when it comes to your world together, let them know that it’s super real, activated & full of trust & loyalty.

If Scorpio does feel on the edge about the relationship or they can’t trust you, they will show this in one of two ways. One way being the healthier route & the other more of the shadow side of Scorpio. They will either speak directly to the issue in very clear & calculated communication with plenty of information to back them up [ in a non-attacking manner ] OR they will suppress into secrecy, avoid physical contact & in very extreme cases will cheat as they don’t know how to express their pent up energy. Again, this is not to say this is your Scorpio partner, but what the energy can be pushed or prone to do if they don’t take time to understand their feelings. 

Seriously though, Scorpio will be the wildest most exhilarating deep dive you’ll take into another person’s heart & soul & will surely only activate that depth for unconditional love within you as well! 

20° Virgo Full Moon @ 12:48pm MST on 3/9/20

This Monday’s Virgo Full Moon is opening up all the floodgates of emotional awareness to be worked with, integrated & celebrated in your relationship! It might seem a little overwhelming as so much begins to bubble up to the surface & is in full illumination under the full moon Virgo microscope of analysis. Work with the elements during this time as every planet is mostly representing water or earth to indicate a purification as well as ground to lend an evolutionary hand in your partnerships.

This may be an emotional time but it also is a highly passionate time with both Pluto & Mars trine the Moon. We have the opportunity to feel a deeper connection to our passions, sense of self & eachother. There’s so much energy happening in the 7th house with Capricorn, it’s a time to reveal how you truly want your relationships to be, how you’ll build together, what you’ll gain together & even what you might let go of together. There is no right or wrong in the zodiac & this is a time to get real with your priorities & set the direction you both wish to move forward with in this wild new year ahead!

LIBRA

Libra – gorgeous, harmonious, your ultimate peace maker in partnership! If there’s any sign that’s the epitome of relationships, love & all things teamwork – it’s Libra. These lovers are obsessed with harmony in their lives & that includes their bae. They really are excellent communicators to get all sides of the story out on the table & find ways to create a fair & just balance so everyone can be happy. If you landed a Libra, you’re in serious good fortune! You also may have a lot to learn in the balancing act of partnership. This is all especially true if your lover’s Venus is in Libra or their Sun, Moon or Rising.

Libra, like Taurus, is ruled by the planet Venus. Venus opens up the floodgates & wants to draw in all things of beauty & love into their lives. You may notice Libra has a very aesthetic home, super in-style clothing, & a bit more of a classy feel to them. This is the strong Venusian energy they exude as they appreciate beauty & art in every way. Don’t feel underdressed or judged, but your Libra lover may want to extend a hand to your wardrobe, home decor, or any area of your life that appears a bit messy. They do genuinely want to help! 

A few things Libra needs to be aware of is this innate desire to keep things in balanced harmony. Sometimes they will bend the truth, withhold information or not share how they’re truly feeling in order to keep the peace & keep things running smoothly. Although they try to do this as selflessly as they can, if their partner catches wind, it  can look quite selfish & deceitful. Do try to be patient with your Libra partner in this & encourage them that more connection & peace will be had if they tell the truth & express how they really feel.

Another thing that Libra is really good at, but it can also get them into trouble, is their ability to be highly objective. This is great for solving problems for others, staying unbiased, & finding justice for all. This can pose challenges for their partners when Libra doesn’t take the time to be subjective enough to understand themselves & what they truly feel, value, want, or need. Libra can become so involved in other’s perspectives & realities they can often lose sight of their own. It can make them appear inauthentic & hollow which is why some people think of Libra as a bit ‘shallow’. This couldn’t be further from the truth & it often just takes a Libra partner to step away from the relationship a little to catch their center & get real about who they are & what they need. 

Libra rules marriage & long term partnership, they want that commitment more than most any of the 12 energies in the zodiac. If you can help them find true balance, you will be in for a beautiful life-long union!

VIRGO

Virgo – selfless, devoted, your wish is my command! Okay, maybe not ‘command’ but certainly taken super seriously. Virgo is a partner who wants to meet your every need & will work tirelessly in order to do so. They don’t mind a challenge & have a ton of determination to do things your way, the right way, the best way. They’re incredibly devoted to their partners & build a lot of connection around open, clear communication. This is especially true if your partner’s Venus is in Virgo along with their Sun, Moon or Rising.

Often an eye for analyzation, they analyze what needs to be corrected, improved and spruced up in their relationships and goes for it! This is one of Virgos amazing qualities as they can be very proactive and apply your requests into the relationship, but it can also be one of their more difficult qualities as well. This has it’s shadow side when things aren’t “quite enough” or aren’t perfect. Sometimes you may wonder if your partner is looking at your every move, habit, & characteristics under a microscope! You wouldn’t be wrong to feel so observed, but remember that Virgo is really just trying to understand you, your needs & what you need from them. 

And don’t be shocked if you find your gifts are all practical & not as romantic as maybe you hoped. Your partner probably already knows what you like, but when they see something you could use day-to-day, they grab it! Try to see past romanticism with these types & see their intention – they really are thinking about you non-stop, listening to what you have to say & seeing how they could gift you something helpful.

They’re also highly detail-oriented, but maybe not always in the ways you’d prefer. Their perfectionism comes out in some areas & lacks in others. This can be frustrating to some, but just let them know what’s driving you crazy rather than letting it fester. Virgo functions highly off direct communication & needs you to vocalize your needs. As much as we wish our partner’s could read our minds, they simply can’t. Unless they’re a Pisces, Scorpio or Cancer… Kidding! Kind of… 

Very earthy & grounded, but super mutable, Virgo is the most flexible & adaptable earth sign in the entire zodiac. They’re open to stable foundations as much as they are to travel & change. They create a very steady & dynamic partnership & really want nothing more than to build a long-lasting connection with you!